sad aka singles awareness day

I really didn't know this was an actual day?😅 Oh that's nice at least... Um that's a Sunday for me so not much likely? Maybe having a meetup with my sisters before my eldest sister goes on her month-long cruise, don't know if that's definite though? Regardless though it'll just be another day for me, I've already long ago mostly ruled myself out having a potential partner, I just think my life situation would still be a little dangerous for one, and I just don't think I'd be worth being with. Am happy enough as I am though, never alone with a cat and a dakimakura 😉

deg, I forbid you from putting aka aka Also Known As in any of your thread titles or posts aka everything you say in the forums. You do it way too much aka almost all the time

noooooooooo dont remind meeeee. ive been single for 21 yearss. i cant do this anymoree

noooooooooo dont remind meeeee. ive been single for 21 yearss. i cant do this anymoree

That day was made specifically in case you didn't realize you were single during Valentine's Day, I suppose. LOL

@naoya3desu if you reach 30 that way you will become a wizard though

@deg I'm a wizard in about a month and a half. Yay! Any ideas?

I will give some chocolate to myself.

@Eldinis i remember you saying youre from france though isnt your place romantic with the city of love aka paris being famous

@deg I'm not the romantic seducer type I'm afraid... I'm more an otaku.

@naoya3desu if you reach 30 that way you will become a wizard though

We don't need a special day to be aware that you guys are single. 🤭

@deg oh hell nah i dont wanna be a wizard bro i just wanna a gf. is that too much to ask???? im about to cry fr

Nice,
any suggestions to new one in this life situation?
How does it feel? Good or Bad?

@naoya3desu go to your local forums or social media groups i guess to find ads showing "hot sexy women near your area"

@deg you mean that 75 year old grandma 5 mins away from me? sorry but NEVER. i like older women but not that old. sadly like i said you know where im from we dont have these types of stuff here.

@naoya3desu yep sorry dude i was just joking there and i think you can still find love even in darkest times and places if you got the motivation or not lazy that is

@deg no need to apologies man i know it was a joke! but yeah it is possible people here aint even religious but thats the problem cause majority of people here looking for short term fwb kinda relationship. almost all the girls i know at least slept with 1 guy. tho i said religious people here are not an option cause they are psychopaths. so im kinda waiting for the love that never comes.

@naoya3desu all i can say now is good luck sometimes luck is needed

We don't need a special day to be aware that you guys are single. 🤭

@fleurbleue

Says the person who's been single for the past 3 decades!

@149597871 Contrary to your expectations, I couldn't save myself for you.😘

@fleurbleue

Sexting with PV doesn't count, sorry. Like, you meet the guy, you get a room together... actually, considering what you two talk about, I don't want to imagine it. I mean like, eww!

Anyway, you are single, period! >_>

@ssvmdh tbh sometimes its ok cause i like to be alone, but i dont think it can go on forever i mean you will need someone to be by your side when you hate being alone. overall i will get it a solid 5 outa 10. i NEED not WANT a GF.

@naoya3desu
Yeah...
Dont know mate, it is a shitty world, maybe sometimes it is good to be alone
New relationships is new responsibility, can you handle that at the first place?
There should be difference between casual sexual intercource vs long time relationship.
And age mattters mate, it is hard for an Otaku in his 30th ot 40th to get a gf of 20th,
yeah, shitty world. So all you got is varios options between 30th an 40th, you can choose...
Does this game even cost our effort? Live your life, have varios sex life, and when you are
ready to be a father go to church, and just let it be...
Nothing in this world cost your efforts for the prize that in not what you want.
But if it was Yaoi relationship, yeah, the age does not matter in that case...
You will have a friend to talk to and drink some beer, ect...

February 15th is a sad day. It's the nba Allstars game and they play some of the worst basketball ever seen on TV.

@naoya3desu: Being in a relationship can be great but it also brings extra responsibilities. When entering into one you make a commitment to meeting the needs of another person. If you are not in the right headspace this can create a burden that you might not be able to handle.

It is also important to remember relationships should not be seen as a means to fix existing issues in your life. If you see a relationship as a ticket to getting your life back on track then most likely you will be disappointed. More importantly there is a good chance you will bring your issues into the relationship causing it to sour. For example a person with issues of insecurity may end up trying to control a partner in unreasonable ways. If I am depressed then I will be less likely to support my partner if they have issues in their own life etc etc.

Instead of seeing a relationship as a solution to your problem make the effort to improve yourself, so if you are not taking care of your health then take steps to correct it. The bonus to this is if you have less outstanding personal issues any relationship you do have will be that much better. Also a person who takes accountability for their own problems and takes steps to improve themselves will make a better partner to being with.

I would also caution you into starting a relationship just to fill a void in your life. The reason being is people often take on bad partners if they feel lonely and finally get the attention. This sudden attention they receive blind sights them to the obvious red flags. Be aware of this danger and don't let your emotions dictate your decision making; there are women (and men) who will prey on lonely people for their own ends. When meeting someone keep an eye on whether they are behaving correctly and drop them if they are unreliable or simply incompatible with you on some fundamental level. Better to be on your own than be with someone who will make your miserable. If your goal is to get married and have kids then this last piece of advise cannot be stressed enough.

Any how all the best.

@ssvmdh Yeah, honestly it’s a really shitty world, especially in this generation and the era we’re living in. for me, being with someone feels much better and pushes me toward becoming a better person compared to being alone. But this is my personal opinion, because I’ve experienced living alone, and during that time I basically messed myself and my health up. That’s why I think being with someone who can guide me toward a better future makes more sense for me, because I really can’t handle being alone, and that’s been proven to me. But yeah, it comes with responsibility, and it’s very heavy. Still, for a better life, I’m willing to accept all those responsibilities. One of the exact reasons I’ve stayed single is that I’m in an environment where everyone is focused on sexual relationships instead of lifelong relationships, which is what I want. For me, a relationship is not just sexual intercourse, and unfortunately, the girls around me don’t understand that. I’m 21 years old, but honestly I think it’s easier at older ages, because people reach full maturity then. For me, yeah, the effort is worth it, truly. I’ve never even had a relationship before, so maybe I’m thinking wrong, but based on my mental readiness, I can say that I’m capable. One of the reasons I didn’t get into a relationship is my fear that I’d put in all that effort for the other person and in the end get nothing.
I just wish at least that friend drink wine instead of beer.

@naoya3desu
Yeah...
Dont know mate...
You are 21 age and have problems with relationships,
maybe your ex just fucked up your life?
So my life is also fucked up somehow but,
this what you can do, just to relax...
Wisit some hentai-partyes in your local area,
or have 2 or 3 sessions of bukake, indeed.
Or you can whear some latex shit on you and visit some
local gay bar, just to relax and see the world wider...
If you dont have this options in you area, yeah shit is going
to be hard for you...

@ssvmdh yeah sadly we dont so its fucking hard

@naoya3desu
Yeah...
Fucking Hell mate, it is so fucked up...